Diary of a Lioness



Sunday 8 February 2009

Here's to moving on....

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Everyone makes mistakes.

I guess we can also hurt people without meaning to. We can also be really hurt, and although we know that person did not mean to do so, it doesn't take away the pain.

Sometimes it doesn't matter how much someone apologises, or tells you they didn't mean it, or that they would never do anything to upset you again. Sometimes it's never enough to take the pain away.

Only you are capable of doing that. Only you can finally get over something and realise that the past is the past and always will be the past.

But what you can do is learn from your experiences; learn from your hurt and learn from the effects your actions had on others.

And then it somehow becomes something beautiful. You reach an understanding and you realise that nothing, or noone else matters.

The ugly past no longer affects your beautiful present

You forgive. And you are forgiven

Here's to moving on

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

You're very right about apologizing not being enough....

Message was right on point. I wish you rainbows after every rainstorm in your life. :-)

Anonymous said...

Im so happy for you babe xx

It's good to hear you're not letting haters or insignificant people get to you anymore. You've moved on from that. Leave them to keep trying to destroy what you have. They are wasting their energies; they can't destroy something solid xx

Are you sticking with the 17th because I heard the 10th?

Anonymous said...

true words portia! thinking that way will keep your mind and soul content! to the beautiful future x

Anonymous said...

I love this sooo true!!

Anonymous said...

Spot on Portia!